

Sexism and Football From a Female Perspective
By: Sairax | January 23rd, 2011Yesterday morning, I woke up early to watch the Wolves â Liverpool game. Before the match began, it was mentioned that there would be a female linesman assisting the referee, Martin Atkinson. I admit, I was happy to see this, since it is a rare occurrence, and as a woman, I rarely get to see my gender represented on the football pitch. Not that I was going to applaud and cheer every time she raised her flag, but it was just nice to see.

In the 36th minute Torres scored to put Liverpool up 1-0. Christian Poulson slid a pass through to Raul Meireles who made his way into the box and set up Torres to put the ball in the back of the net. The Wolves players were protesting that Meireles had been offside and the commentators were unsure as well. It might seem odd, but at that moment I was praying that the female assistant had gotten the call right. The tv showed the replay and it turned out that Meireles was onside, and that the lineswoman had called it correctly. I breathed a sigh of relief and went on twitter, saying something along the lines of âIs it silly that I was glad the female linesman got the call right?â A few ladies tweeted me back saying they were also happy. There were a couple of people that tweeted that we were being patronizing and that she did her job so we shouldnât be surprised that she did what she was expected to do.
This is of course true in the basic sense. Maybe itâs true that I and some of the other women were being patronizing and making too much of her doing her job. However, that was not why I was relieved. I was glad she got the call right because if she had gotten it wrong, I know there would have been the usual chorus of âwomen donât know footballâ or âwomen shouldnât be officials in the gameâ or some nonsense like that. As it turns out, she didnât even need to get the call wrong in order to gain criticism. The Daily Mail has a story today about Andy Gray and Richard Keys having a, how shall I say, frank exchange of views on female officials:
Keys: âSomeone should get down there and explain the offside rule to herâ
Gray: âCan you believe that? A female linesman.Women donât know the offside ruleâ
Keys: âCourse they donât. I can guarantee you there will be a big one today. Kenny (Liverpool manager Kenny Dalglish) will go potty. This isnât the first time, is it? Didnât we have one before?â
Continued…
Keys: âThe gameâs gone mad. Did you hear charming Karen Brady this morning complaining about sexism? Do me a favour, love.â
Lady Arse has the audio at the end of her blog post from today. Needless to say, I feel the need to say something in response to this. My first reaction is that Iâm not surprised at all. I was obviously expecting someone to say something along these lines. My second reaction is that I cannot believe the gall of some people. Thank heavens I donât actually get Sky Sports in Canada because having to pay for a channel that has the likes of these two boorish and offensive pundits would be infuriating.
Women donât know the offside rule? Funny, because I believe the lineswoman got the call correct, unlike the male linesman who consistently got the offside calls wrong during the first half of our match against Wigan yesterday. Even if she had got the call wrong, I doubt that the absence of a Y chromosome would be the reason for such an error. I remember during the World Cup this past summer, there was a contentious offside ruling during a match with Mexico and I had known the call was correct, whereas many people were confused about the call and were debating it for a while after. Then we have Keys have a go at West Ham vice-chairman, Karen Brady, for having the nerve to bring up the sexism she has experienced in her job. âDo me a favour, loveâ? I have to say, when men begin invoking âloveâ, âhoneyâ, or âsweetheartâ when trying to discredit an argument against a woman, it makes me cringe.

There is obviously an inherent sexism in football these days, not to mention racism and homophobia. In fact, it is possible that football is the least progressive of all the major sports today. There is not one female, black, or gay manager in the Premier League at this moment. As a female of Indian descent, this makes me sad. I remember when I was young, I used to watch football mainly through the World Cup. I was 13 years old when I saw Thierry Henry and Ronaldo take the stage in the greatest tournament of them all. I was in awe, and I used to watch with a pure sense of joy. The thing was, I always felt a small pang of disappointment inside of myself. I know young boys everywhere daydream about playing on the same pitch as their heroes. Maybe they set up the match winning goal in a Champions League final. In a different scenario, they could pretend they are the big man on the touchline, waving and shouting at their team onto victory. The disappointment I had was that I could never really have this same dream. I am a girl with brown skin. I cannot play on the same pitch as these great male players. I had never even seen a proper match between women. Seeing myself as a manager? How? Where were the female managers? There were none. I would be forever resigned to being a spectator, wide eyed and wondrous in the bleachers.
I was most likely wrong about never being able to be a part of the sport. Today, there are many women in the game on and off the pitch. Not to mention I am complete and utter rubbish at anything that requires athletic ability, so that would rule me out of playing sports well before I encountered any sexism. Still, there are times when you feel disrespected or undermined for your opinion as a football fan, not because you arenât making a valid argument, but because you are a woman, and women canât possibly know much about football. Then there are men who look at you like you are some sort of odd natural phenomenon like aurora borealis and stand gaping that a female actually has knowledge of the beautiful game. As I give my impressions on the role of a holding midfielder, they look at me as if Iâm an endangered albino rhino because I am a female that is talking some sense about football tactics.
I donât think that all men or football fans are like this. There are still quite a few of them out there though. Keys and Gray claim that the game has âgone madâ. What I find mad is the idea that these two still have a job after making such blatantly sexist comments. I would feel the same if they had made similar racist or homophobic comments. Weâre in the 21st century. Surely we can all move beyond such backward logic as the idea that females have no role to play in the modern game? I have been heartened in recent months to watch my own Canadian Womenâs National Team be led by a brilliant coach in Carolina Morace. They have gone from route one football to a slicker passing game and it is great to see a group of strong, talented women playing good football from my own country. They still have obstacles to face. Many of them have a hard time playing during the regular season because of the lack of funding and opportunities in womenâs leagues around the world. They certainly donât get paid like their male counterparts. Whatâs positive to see is the progress being made and the determination of the women (and men) that are trying to advance the role of females in football today.

The assistant referee from the Wolves â Liverpool match, Sian Massey, had a job to do yesterday and she did it. What she doesnât need is to get criticized for absolutely no reason, other than the fact that she is female. I hope to see her again in the future, of her own merit of course. Female referees have been increasing in recent years. I have seen a few in MLS and there is a story here of one talking about the challenges she faces as a referee in Argentina.
I hope this didnât come off as some sort of feminist diatribe because that is not my intention. However, it amuses and angers me that there are people out there that say there is no sexism in football, or that sexism works both ways. Yes, sexism works both ways, absolutely. I would say that sexism towards women has been grossly disproportionate throughout history and is still more detrimental to the fairer sex than it is to men. Iâm lucky enough that my family has done away with arranged marriages, but that doesnât stop them from trying to find me a nice boy to settle down with. I wonât go on with the double standards Iâve had to experience personally, but to say Iâm treated differently than my brother amongst some of the older generation in my family is an understatement (not my parents, I should say. More grandparents and aunts and uncles).
I donât believe all fans are idiots like Keys and Gray. Martin, who is the main writer of this blog, is a great writer and football fan who generously invited me to share my thoughts and ideas about the Arsenal on this very blog. Not because I am female, but because he thought I would bring a different voice and that I would be a valuable contributor. I have met many female fans through this blog and twitter, some of whom write their own blogs. Unfortunately, you get those rotten eggs that come along to spoil things with comments like the ones weâve heard today. These people do nothing to help the game. They are the same people who call out âforeignersâ for cheating, but not the squeaky-clean Englishmen. I donât want a false sense of equality. I want a proper conversation and reasoned debate, not clichĂ©s and dismissive retorts to anyone who happens to be different. The English media would do well to stop perpetuating this type of negativity and get rid of these two laughable excuses for mainstream punditry from the public forum. Hasnât it been long enough that weâve all had to deal with these kinds of prejudices in a game that so many enjoy all over the world? I commend the likes of CBC here in Canada for their coverage of women in football. Itâs never condescending and they provide the same type of analysis they do to the menâs game, not to mention I find the personalities are more representative of the overall population. It would be wonderful to see a great footballing nation such as England take a similar approach.
No, Richard Keys. The game has not gone mad. Itâs catching up. You may want to pick up the pace before it passes you by.
Hereâs a funny bit by Louis CK, one of my favourite comedians, talking about how great it is to be male and white. VERY NSFW but quite hilarious.
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